One respondent said ‘date women because men are dumb’
A woman in America is so tired of being ghosted by men that she’s created an “exit interview” to find out what was going wrong.
Shanna – who goes under the name @Riesling4Prez on TikTok – posted a simple selection of questions in a survey for men to fill out and put a video up explaining her decision.
She was recently inspired to ask men for the “exit interview” because she was chatting to one guy for a few days before he went completely cold on her for no obvious reason.
The survey contains questions for men to answer, like “why did you ghost Shanna?” and “what could Shanna do to stop getting ghosted?”
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It may sound like Shanna was looking for answers – but the clever singleton actually devised the whole thing to “call out” the guys who were ghosting her.
“This was purely to call out the fact that guys don’t have backbones or balls to be like, ‘Hey, you’re not it,’ she explains. “It’s not that hard. Believe me, I know I am not everyone’s cup of tea,” she added.
Her ploy worked too, as the guy who ghosted her replied to her TikTok quiz admitting he was basically a massive tool for ghosting her.
“I caught feelings too fast and don’t know what feelings are,” he said.
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He added: “Date women because men are dumb…. Keep being a bada** b*tch. Sorry I was a dick.”
TikTok users have flooded to the video. So far, Shanna’s dating review form has been viewed over 3.5 million times.
It has also created a conversation about the benefit of “exit interviews” in dating – or at least the idea of offering feedback to people you’ve been on dates with.
“Being ghosted isn’t about you. It’s about the other person’s inability to communicate their feelings/needs/experiences,” one user wrote to Shanna.
Shanna’s survey makes one thing clear: the joke’s on you, ghosters.
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