‘This man failed my protection test, so he never heard from me again’
A woman has shared her stringent tests that men must pass if they want a second date with her.
Gabby took to TikTok (@respectfullygabby) to enlighten her 19,000 followers about what she expects from men.
She says in the video: “Let’s just stop this conversation and the back and forth, 50/50 bulls–t. First date, he needs to be paying 100 percent.
“And if he’s not — then, like, goodbye.”
Gabby went on to recall a date she had when she and a guy had a few drinks at a bar. At the end of the night, their taxis were going in separate directions, but when his cab arrived he offered to wait with her until her taxi turned up.
Cue another part of the test – she politely said that she was fine and he could go, hoping that he would insist on staying.
But he didn’t and decided to get in his Uber and leave her on the street alone at 4am.
He never heard from Gabby again apparently.
“If you don’t care about my safety and making sure I get into my Uber safely, you’re done,” Gabby said in the TikTok.
She then gives her male viewers a quick rundown of what women expect from them.
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“This man failed my protection test, so he never heard from me again,” she said. “Men, you need to be walking her to her car, to her Uber, to wherever to make sure she gets home safely.”
Other parts of her test included complaining that she is cold – even if she isn’t – just to see if the man will “give her the shirt of his back.”
If they don’t, then it’s game over again.
The tests left users divided over whether this was being harsh on her dates or whether they were pretty reasonable.
“The girls that get it, GET IT,” wrote one fan of her dating guidelines.
“Normally I don’t agree with tests because it’s all about being sincere,” commented another, “but this is just common sense stuff to look out for the lady you’re with.”
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But others were critical of Gabby for her “tests,” offering that she should just “say what she means” instead of being cryptic.
“Test this test that. What are we in high school? Stop with the games and communicate!! Way too grown for all this,” said one angered guy.
“Next time don’t tell him its ok. I always let men wait,” wrote another. “Don’t tell them no as a test.”
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